This paper examines communication between gay couples through the lens of how it affects, and is affected by, imposed heterosexuality within the society at large. The paper emphasizes that the patriarchal society narrows the parameters within which gay couples' communication can occur, since it socially constructs gender roles and sexual orientation. The essay argues that it is the communication between gay couples that serves as the stepping-stone for society to become more inclusionary toward same-sex orientation. 8 pgs. 13 f/c. 12b.